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The Brief Historical Background of Ozizza
Located at the north-east part of Afikpo is Ozizza
community. It is bounded with beaches of natural banks of rocks. It is
characterized for its zones of tropical forest with scattered hills and
valleys. Outwardly to the upper part of Afikpo, it stretches to a flat
desert-like land. The land of Ozizza is also stony with an
inclusion of imbedded solid minerals. Streams are equally found in-between
valleys and hills. It is as well blessed with lakes.
ORIGIN AND MEANING
OF OZIZZA
The name ‘Ozizza’ could be translated phonetically to mean response. It is believed, from legend that the early dwellers in Ozizza were mounted as spies to obtain information and relay same to the warriors of the Egus especially matters relating to war. As they were often been called to give account of their daily watch keep, the espionage agents on going to answer will hint their families thus; “let us go and answer”. [Unu je wee? …ozi-zza oku]. Gradually, ozi-zza oku was abridged to Ozizza. [the name which the latter settlers inherited].
E mphatically, Nkpoghoro,
Ugwuegu, Ohaisu and Itim have
their short stories as follows;
Ugwu Egu: The discoveries from the archives reviews that Ugwuegu is the original settlement of the Egus. In brief, it is the valley/hill where the Egus dwell. They were considerably large in number before they got driven by the Nkalus. Thus they scattered and migrated to many places in Igbo land. Some places like Igbagu, Ezeagu, Nkwegu, Nkalagu etc are typical examples.
Itim: These people make up extractions of a group of settlers from Edda. The place they left in Edda is still called Itim. The Itim people are Enohia Nkalu, Enohia Itim, kpoghirikpo, Amuro and Mgbom.
FIRST DWELLERS IN OZIZZA AND THEIR
FOUND VILLAGES
One would have been well informed of the meaning surrounding the name ‘Ozizza’ from the brief record of the first dwellers. But unfortunately, the name of the original settler is superficially connected with the name ‘Ozizza’. Though the place has been until recently called Ozizza Edem Oke, yet no perfect nomenclatural relationship ever existed.
However, Edem Oke made his first settlement at a spot called Agba. There are divergent views of where he came from. One group of opinion traced him to Nri Akwa Ibo in Anambra State, where he started his journey. History has it that he left Nri to wander. Thus, he pre-settled and passed through many places [including Enugu]. His arrival at Nkanu in Enugu elated him to make an onward movement to Cross-River. It was from Cross-river that he sailed to Itigidi and latter got to Amaeta. He latter trans-settled from Amaeta to Akpa in Ama-Ori (both in Ozizza).
Furthermore, legend or mythology asserts that when he was coming from Nri Akwa Ibo, he picked one of the powerful juju which he called Icha. That juju is the origin of Eze Ayi Ozizza. He used crab as the symbolism of the juju. Though it is yet to be confirmed if crab is exactly what is used symbolically for the same god at Nri, the fact remains unknown as many researchers are yet to come up with the final answer.
The second settlement was made a while after Edem by Okpoto. Okpoto settled at Ovum, a smaller village in Imama. He dwelt there long before others began to join him. Imama until recently was being called Imama-Okpoto in his honour. Okpoto was characterized for his powerful rulership and unbeatable wrestling prowess. Due to this fact, the Ozizza people do not dash out for wrestling combat without first consulting the gods at Ogo Ovum to arouse their spirit. It is at this Ogo that inter-wrestling competition was been carried out by the youths. On this ground, the wrestling warriors were selected. It should be recalled that this Ogo Ovum was called Ogo Ukwu, for the single reason being that it was where preparation for combat was been hoist before any outfit. This is attributive to the fact that in time of war, the Ozizza people do lay fibrous frond at Ogo ukwu in ovum. Here every male ranging from Isi Elia down would be expected to pounce steps across a fibrous frond. This will be over once the fibrous frond cuts. At this juncture, those who could not pounce steps across the fibrous frond before it got cut would automatically remain to guard the home, while those who pounced across would venture for war. This particular act was an indication of wisdom and portrays the powerful influence of nature over the people for they knew that not all who go a war come back alive [Obughu ihe achiri je ogu na awa] or else their clan would be exterminated one day.
The latter settlement was by Oboro Iyi. He settled at Ama-Ikpo in Ozizza, specifically in a place called Ebetu. Oboro Iyi came along with his own juju. That juju is also called Ebetu. The Ebetu is the symbolism of Ogo Nwanyi. It symbolizes the power of women over men. He came from Aro passing through Atani [a sub-village in Aro]. From there he followed the Cross-River until he arrived at beach now called Otu- Ohila. He settled peacefully with his brother Inaaja, whom he came along with. The duo, latter fell apart from each other when Inaaja was accused of having committed adultery with his brother’s wife. Thus, Inaaja was sent away.
Though very strange but very true, that among all places in Ehugbo (except at Enohia Itim), it is only in Agbo-Ogo Orra that women for a day in a year take over the Ogo cult while men take refuge at home. It is indeed an ‘Evu-eme’ in Ehugbo.
The change in life of the people is varied with the change in culture. But unquantifiable change in persons has less impact on culture. That is why the people of Nde-Ehugbo believe in re-incarnation. That a regenerated person will come to exhibit the life and style-like his fore-fathers.
©: April, 2006 Raphael Inya-Ekuma & Victor Elechi Oti
Ozizza is a place of unique
features with sizeable mass of arable land for cultivation, and other
activities. It is however densely populated by men and women of noble
disciplines.
The name ‘Ozizza’ could be translated phonetically to mean response. It is believed, from legend that the early dwellers in Ozizza were mounted as spies to obtain information and relay same to the warriors of the Egus especially matters relating to war. As they were often been called to give account of their daily watch keep, the espionage agents on going to answer will hint their families thus; “let us go and answer”. [Unu je wee? …ozi-zza oku]. Gradually, ozi-zza oku was abridged to Ozizza. [the name which the latter settlers inherited].
In reference to the names of other communities
[Nkpoghoro, Ugwuegu, Ohaisu and Itim] in Afikpo, better understanding of the
origin and meaning of names is acknowledged with reasonable facts, unlike
Ozizza that is yet to be established as a true tale.
Nkpoghoro: The
origin and meaning of Nkpoghoro is attributive to a lamentation made by Nde-Ehugbo
on the horrible incident of fire set up by a great warrior “Igbo ukwu” as a
result of fight between him and the Egus /Nkalus. The fire was set up on the
gods verged on Amadi at Oroghoro. So being one of the most significant place
then, the people felt engulfed and made immediate lamentation [nkpu] at
Oroghoro. Hence the name nkpu-Oroghoro. This gradually got to change to
Nkpoghoro.
Ohaisu: This
name “Ohaisu” resulted due to the conglomeration of Isu Nkalu’s children. It is
an attribute of the latter descendant of Isu Nkalu who was the first settler at
Ngodo. Thus in the real sense of Ehugbo dialect, it means umu Isu Nkalu. It is
pertinent to know that Ezi Isu at Ngodo which exist till today is in honour of
Isu Nkalu.
Ugwu Egu: The discoveries from the archives reviews that Ugwuegu is the original settlement of the Egus. In brief, it is the valley/hill where the Egus dwell. They were considerably large in number before they got driven by the Nkalus. Thus they scattered and migrated to many places in Igbo land. Some places like Igbagu, Ezeagu, Nkwegu, Nkalagu etc are typical examples.
Itim: These people make up extractions of a group of settlers from Edda. The place they left in Edda is still called Itim. The Itim people are Enohia Nkalu, Enohia Itim, kpoghirikpo, Amuro and Mgbom.
One would have been well informed of the meaning surrounding the name ‘Ozizza’ from the brief record of the first dwellers. But unfortunately, the name of the original settler is superficially connected with the name ‘Ozizza’. Though the place has been until recently called Ozizza Edem Oke, yet no perfect nomenclatural relationship ever existed.
However, Edem Oke made his first settlement at a spot called Agba. There are divergent views of where he came from. One group of opinion traced him to Nri Akwa Ibo in Anambra State, where he started his journey. History has it that he left Nri to wander. Thus, he pre-settled and passed through many places [including Enugu]. His arrival at Nkanu in Enugu elated him to make an onward movement to Cross-River. It was from Cross-river that he sailed to Itigidi and latter got to Amaeta. He latter trans-settled from Amaeta to Akpa in Ama-Ori (both in Ozizza).
Furthermore, legend or mythology asserts that when he was coming from Nri Akwa Ibo, he picked one of the powerful juju which he called Icha. That juju is the origin of Eze Ayi Ozizza. He used crab as the symbolism of the juju. Though it is yet to be confirmed if crab is exactly what is used symbolically for the same god at Nri, the fact remains unknown as many researchers are yet to come up with the final answer.
In addition, pertinent questions can still be deciphered
from the whole tale which forms the basis for future research work:
[1]
At what genealogy was the name changed from Icha to Eze Ayi Ozizza.
[2]
Why the use of crab as the symbolism of the gods.
The second settlement was made a while after Edem by Okpoto. Okpoto settled at Ovum, a smaller village in Imama. He dwelt there long before others began to join him. Imama until recently was being called Imama-Okpoto in his honour. Okpoto was characterized for his powerful rulership and unbeatable wrestling prowess. Due to this fact, the Ozizza people do not dash out for wrestling combat without first consulting the gods at Ogo Ovum to arouse their spirit. It is at this Ogo that inter-wrestling competition was been carried out by the youths. On this ground, the wrestling warriors were selected. It should be recalled that this Ogo Ovum was called Ogo Ukwu, for the single reason being that it was where preparation for combat was been hoist before any outfit. This is attributive to the fact that in time of war, the Ozizza people do lay fibrous frond at Ogo ukwu in ovum. Here every male ranging from Isi Elia down would be expected to pounce steps across a fibrous frond. This will be over once the fibrous frond cuts. At this juncture, those who could not pounce steps across the fibrous frond before it got cut would automatically remain to guard the home, while those who pounced across would venture for war. This particular act was an indication of wisdom and portrays the powerful influence of nature over the people for they knew that not all who go a war come back alive [Obughu ihe achiri je ogu na awa] or else their clan would be exterminated one day.
The third settlement was the arrival of Akpo Eke Ude from Arochukwu. He
travelled all this way to settle at Ozizza.
His compound inherited the name Ezi Akpo
Eke till today.
The latter settlement was by Oboro Iyi. He settled at Ama-Ikpo in Ozizza, specifically in a place called Ebetu. Oboro Iyi came along with his own juju. That juju is also called Ebetu. The Ebetu is the symbolism of Ogo Nwanyi. It symbolizes the power of women over men. He came from Aro passing through Atani [a sub-village in Aro]. From there he followed the Cross-River until he arrived at beach now called Otu- Ohila. He settled peacefully with his brother Inaaja, whom he came along with. The duo, latter fell apart from each other when Inaaja was accused of having committed adultery with his brother’s wife. Thus, Inaaja was sent away.
Inaaja’s
Escape to Agbo Ogo Orra: When Inaaja left his brother at Ebetu; he moved
south-west until he arrived at Ezi Egwu in
Agbo Ogo Orra. As he was departing, he collected part of the
juju which he came along with his brother and kept at his new settlement now
called Ezi Egwu in Agbo
Ogo, Orra.
However, not long
after his settlement, Inaaja discovered that Akpo Eke had already settled before him. Notwithstanding every odd,
both accepted each other, lived amicably and share powers. Among the things
they shared were Oma-Ogo and Ulo-Ogo. Akpo
Eke took Ulo Ogo, while Inaaja took Oma-Ogo.Though very strange but very true, that among all places in Ehugbo (except at Enohia Itim), it is only in Agbo-Ogo Orra that women for a day in a year take over the Ogo cult while men take refuge at home. It is indeed an ‘Evu-eme’ in Ehugbo.
CULTURAL/RELIGIOUS
BACKGROUND OF AFIKPO [OZIZZA VERSION]
Culture as universal as light is nothing but the way of people’s
life. It rallies on the way the people reason, act, react, life style,
occupation, education, customs, ethics, and values as well as many other
portraits. It is practically oriented. In Afikpo generally, culture abound and
a lot is attached to it, which before now was hinged on Ogo cult. Till today, culture in Afikpo is still the hallmark of
the people’s life. Afikpo being
accommodative in nature has been greatly affected in terms of changes in her
culture. This affirms the fact that culture is unique but dynamic. For
instance, the coming of the white men altered a lot in the lives of Afikpo
people [Ndu
Nde Ehugbo]. Inter-tribal marriage,
outward occupation etc also contributed. The change in life of the people is varied with the change in culture. But unquantifiable change in persons has less impact on culture. That is why the people of Nde-Ehugbo believe in re-incarnation. That a regenerated person will come to exhibit the life and style-like his fore-fathers.
However, the culture of Ozizza is no
less or more than what it is in other part of Afikpo, except on some insignificant perceptional changes. Nde- Ozizza
sub-group are hardworking people. For instance they venture in fishing,
hunting, farming etc. In the olden days they ventured in war, as most often
than none, they were being hired to defend far communities. But the coming of
the western education has paved way for white collar jobs, of which the people
are progressively being favoured, hence the multiplication of affluent,
civilized, educated and westernized citizenry.
Other aspects like dressing, life style etc are modest.
The usual scene where un-initiated male and unmarried female used to dress
waist down is no more. No difference these days. The Etos, Essas, Onikaras and
Hories age grades are the only people with specialty in mode of dressing. The
married women have theirs in generality [that is the tying of wrapper and well-made
blouse].
Furthermore, the usual interest from children/wards to
listen to fork-tales, stories etc is no more. There is that affinity for
western education. Children who are homeward do prefer stories in foreign
languages to native language. The overall effect is the gradual decay of the
culture which is thus eluding fast as a storm.
Religion:
In Ehugbo, two religions are mainly practiced. That is
the traditional religion and Christian religion. On a general perspective,
African traditional religion is a polytheistic type of religion were the people
vest their believe on many gods [Erusi]. Ehugbo as a typical African society
does not waste time in asking many questions when an unusual being is
encountered. At such an encounter, their confusion squirm them to tag the scene
as a god with ‘ire-nkwu’. When this
happens, the new god is worshipped with special sacrifice offered, as they
schedule. That is why proliferation of gods abounds in Ehugbo, plus the
appendages of the major Erusi Ogo
cult. Some other known gods are Njoku-ji [god of yam], Eguru[god of procreation], Nkamalu[god of health], Ibini-Ukpabi[god of sun] etc. peculiar
gods in Ozizza
are Eze ayi Ozizza, Evegere enyum, Ebetu, and Nkpume-Ukwu.
An Afikpo man
is very religious; the reason is that any significant being that indicates the
existence of god at a place heightens his fear. To affirm this, it was on the
verge of traditional religion that stealing, raping, adultery; lies, public
fund embezzlement etc were nipped to the bud. Stories from the elders have it
that no foreign god, charm, juju or whatever it may be called, brought to Ehugbo got to be effective.
Though Christian religion is over-riding the traditional
religion which definitely might lead to the extermination of the Ogo cult in
future, Nde-Ehugbo should imbibe the
traditional religious virtues and concatenate same in their Christian worship.
The coming of white men brought about the inculcation of civilization and new
mode of worship in the life of some fortunate individuals. [A trend which
continues to multiply and diversify like nuclear reaction].
Christianity:
This is a religion that the people did not know, did not
believe on and did not worship. They got to know, believe and worship due to
the influence of the western government and their education. Today Christian
religion is more native than the traditional religion itself. The first
Christian denomination that came to Ozizza was the Church of
Scotland Mission (CSM) now called
Presbyterian Church of Nigeria (PCN).
It first arrived in Ozizza in 1913. It came
along with a school which was established in Ezi Akpo Eke in Ora. The
school lasted just for two years. It was closed down completely when a teacher
flogged a child of a royal family. On
hearing that his son was flogged, the royal father felt challenged, and
humiliated, thus he summoned the teacher and alleged him of stealing his fowl. The
royal father capitalized on this purport accusation and arraigned the teacher
to the vices of the youths and children. The teacher was mercilessly beaten,
assaulted and humiliated. It was on this particular incident that the school
was closed down by the white missionaries.
However, in 1916, the same Presbyterian returned back
after a perfect negotiation with the traditional ruler of Ama Ikpo, who allowed her to settle at Ama Ikpo. At this second time, the missionaries established a
church instead of school, with the intention of nurturing the moral virtues of
the people. The church which was built between Ezi Idume and Ezi Ugwu
in Ama Ikpo still exist till date.
As God planned it, the Roman Catholic Church arrived and
established a primary school [St Bridges’] in 1947. This sojourn was commenced
by Rev. Fr. MacManus and since then, there had been a tremendous proliferation
of different churches.
Acknowledgment:
Chiefs Gabriel Elechi Oti & Brendan
O. Otu (Both from Ozizza, and contributed
immensely to the success of this write-up.)©: April, 2006 Raphael Inya-Ekuma & Victor Elechi Oti
Tuesday, 3 December 2013
The Importance of Sowing a Good Seed By Raphael Inya-Ekuma (Roni)
When
I was inspired to write on this topic, I found it so ambiguous to delve in. I
began to throb in my heart, assessing my interrelationship with people, God and
my environment. I found out that there were absolutely some things lacking,
though with no exact perception of that which was absent. It was as if I was
not going to come out with any reasonable answer? This mood of uncertainty kept
me in a worrisome state and in a confined state of mind. Indeed, reality became
obstacle to my happiness. Can you guess what my fear was? …Yes or No? My fear
was that I might definitely be like an old statistician if I did not proffer
solutions to my immediate problems. Of course, old statisticians never die anyway, they just become non-significant.
In other words, had I not made any
effort to decipher if actually I have sowed a seed or not, and also if the seed is being grown
appropriately; then in future, I would have become irrelevant to myself,
friends, relatives, society, nature and the universe.
However,
not too long afterwards, I had an overshoot in my mind, it was indeed a
reflection to what Franklin said, “that
if you would not be forgotten as soon as you are dead, either write things
worth reading or do things worth writing” Immediately, another word came to
my mind, the message was - “if you can dream of it, you can achieve it;
the sky is the spring board not the limit’’. The next issue of pandemonium was,
what kind of seed do I sow, how, when and to what extents do I sow seed since I
was not a farmer to have known much about nurturing and growing a good seed?
For a good seed ought to be viable, fresh and devoid of any diseases. Perhaps I was taking it so narrow, so I
decided to consult the Advanced Learner’s Dictionary, 6th Edition by
A.S. Hornby. The definition and explanation I found suitable about seed was
stressed thus, “the beginning of a
feeling or a development which continues to grow” This insight exposed me
and I began to elucidate some factual questions. I started by assessing the
kind of environment I found myself. I recalled that it is always said that some
men are wicked because others makes them so.
And most often, the environment might be so harsh, so confronting to new
and improved ideas; most often too, the
set of people in a society can be more of cowards, betrayers, saboteurs and
very adamant to effect positive changes. I recalled again that dog which cannot
bite can bark and vice versa. The overall conclusion is that all hinges on
greed and possibly avarice.
Suffice
it to say now that the survival of any seed sowed relies on some fundamental
factors. Some of these factors may include societal influence, environmental
and universal influence, influence of well-wishers, followers and so on. Albert
Einstein, a theoretical physicist and mathematician who possibly is believed was the most famous scientist ever lived once made
a statement that “a successful man is he
who receives a great deal from his fellowmen, usually incomparably but more
than corresponds to his service to them”. The value of a man however,
should be seen in what he gives and not in what he is able to receive. The parable of the sower
from Matthew 13:3-8, New Revised Standard Version Catholic Edition (NRSVCE) of the Holy book
validates this on the impact of one’s environment …“Listen! A sower went out to sow, 4 and as
he sowed, some seeds fell on the path, and the birds came and ate them up.5
Other seeds fell on rocky ground, where they did not have much soil, and
they sprang up quickly, since they had no depth of soil. 6 But when
the sun rose, they were scorched; and since they had no root, they withered
away. 7 Other seeds fell among thorns, and the thorns grew up and
choked them. 8 Other seeds fell on good soil and brought forth
grain, some a hundredfold, some sixty, some thirty.”
But would one now get perturbed for the fear of thorn-like
society, disappointment, betrayal, stunted growth etc? No! the outcome suffice
not to deter one from advancing a developmental course, for both the recipient
and the giver are at both ends; for what one gives, the other receives and vice
versa. Thus what goes around comes around. In other words, seed sowing is a
common denominator applicable to everyone, a sacrifice of exchange that
extends to both ends and entails both parties to give up what one already has
for a growth of success or failure. Ecclesiastes 11:6 holds a support on seed
sowing irrespective of what the outcome might be…“in
the morning sow your seed, and at evening do not let your hands be idle; for
you do not know which will prosper, this or that, or whether both alike will be
good”. “Most assuredly, I say to
you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the ground and dies, it remains alone;
but if it dies, it produces much grain.” -John 12:24
Finally
I must emphatically conclude that out of your seed comes your success or
failure. According to Mayer Joyce, “out
of your miseries comes your ministry”.
So to succeed in your enterprise, you must express your true self in action.
The ultimate is that done to the glory of God, ratifying our relationship with
Him without any prejudice to the accolade of any man. “They have sown wheat
and have reaped thorns; they have tired themselves out but profit nothing. They
shall be ashamed of their harvests because of the fierce anger of
the Lord” -Jeremiah 12:13. We should ensure
that our seeds are acceptable not just to our neighbors but also to God. Our
approach should be akin to when one takes a container with water and immerses
seeds into the container, the seeds which sink are healthy seeds while those
that will float are unhealthy seeds which are of no use and essence. But in
all, sow your seeds in secret for the heavenly Father that sees all that is
done in secret will reward abundantly.
Friday, 29 November 2013
Marriage System in Afikpo (Ehugbo) By Gabriel Mbey
The
people of Afikpo (Ehugbo) have a unique system of marriage. This
article gives account of marriage rites as performed during the earlier
part of Afikpo history (the OLD SYSTEM) and marriage rites during the
later years (the NEW SYSTEM).
OLD SYSTEM:
Under the old system, the stages are as follows:
After determining that there is a bright future for their conjugal union, the suitor breaks the ice by proposing marriage to the girl, to which she gives her consent. She then tells the man to make his intentions known to her father. However, the girl’s father must have time to consider the proposal.
The suitor at this point discloses his plan to his parents who, in most cases, make enquiries about the character of the girl’s parents’ and their lineage. If the lineage is of good repute, they encourage the union and if otherwise, they will repudiate the idea. But this is rare. The consent of both parties accelerates the anxiety of the suitor and induces him to move to the first stage known as “Ikpa Obubo” – Conversation.
Amari Ulo
The story is told of a suitor who delegated representatives to take items of marriage (wine and fish) to the home of his late father-in-law’s brother (prospective in-law) at Ezi Agbo, Mgbom, Afikpo. The purpose of the visit was to make his intentions known to his prospective in-law. After some enquiries, the representatives found the house they were looking for and were received by the prospective in-law. Following the usual presentation and consumption of kola nut, the matter of marriage as is the custom in Afikpo, was introduced. Because of the abnormal approach to the issue, the prospective in-law was infuriated and, in a fit of anger, drove the suitor’s representatives out of his house. He was aggrieved by the fact that the suitor had not known his house previously before coming to perform marriage rites for his “‘daughter.” People, of course, agreed with him.
The suitor’s representatives went home and narrated their ordeal to him. After due consultation, the suitor and his representatives returned the prospective in-law’s home. They came with wine and a stick of dried fish and apologized. They told the man that they had come to know his house formally and officially. He should therefore accept them as the suitor of his “daughter.” With joy the man received them warmly. He gave consent to their request. This done, he gave them permission to carry on any other ceremonies in respect of the marriage without any hesitation. This act became a routine among men of his status. Later, it extended to daughters whose parents are alive and continued until it metamorphosed into a traditional marriage rite, baptized, “Amari Ulo” (knowing the house). So the use of fish or stock fish and wine became the basic process of “Amari Ulo” marriage ceremony.
Atogbo Nku (Dropping of Fire Wood)
After a man has “known the house” of his father-in-law, he steps into another stage known as “Atogbo Nku” which literally means dropping of fire wood. In the process, the man caries a big bundle of fire wood to his mother-in-law and drops it in front of her house. This is usually in the evening of either Orie or Nkwo market day. The following day, Afor or Eke market day, he also carries a big log of fire wood to the father-in-law and drops the wood in front of the man’s house.
The wood, in both cases, is placed at conspicuous places in order to attract the attention of passers-by who, upon seeing it, will undoubtedly know that a girl in that particular house is engaged to be married. Following this, the intimacy of the man with his fiancĂ© becomes so deep that the man can now pass nights in his girl’s house. “Dropping of fire wood” continued until the influence of western civilization reached Afikpo, following which, young men felt it was odd and demeaning for them to engage in such exercise.
In the course of time, the young men complained that it was degrading for them to carry firewood and logs of wood. They felt that such exercise was demeaning for men, although it suited the girls, naturally. The men implored parents of betrothed girls to find an alternative to Atogbo Nku. They were granted their request and were told to adopt the same process used in Amari Ulo by using smoked fish or stock fish and wine in lieu of fire wood. From then, the use of a stick of smoked fish or stock fish and palm wine became the vogue for Atogbo Nku.
In course of time other items like tobacco and potash, and in very recent times, cigarettes were added to the roster of permissible items for Atogbo Nku. Soon the use of the above items for Atogbo Nku was formalized and adopted as a customary marriage rite in the whole of Afikpo. It holds sway up to the present day.
Inyo Ozi or Ahia ozi (Undertaking of Labour or Work)
As a rule, suitors are responsible for the performance of some duties for their parents-in-law. They undertake jobs such as mending the leaking roofs of parents-in-laws’ houses. In the event of ill-health, the intending man is responsible for the payment of all hospital bills of the girl and her parents.
In the farming season, suitors are heavily involved in farm work for their parents-in-law. They clear bushes, make mounds for yams and cassava and even stake the yams at the appropriate time. Mound making for yams is the most essential duty of a suitor. He takes ten (10) or more men along with him to the father-in-law’s farm for mound making. This formal undertaking of farm work is usually a remarkable occasion. The father-in-law and the suitor are reciprocally involved. While the suitor and his men produce a very great piece of work in the farm, the father-in-law provides an elaborate entertainment for them at their return at home. Generally, a goat is slaughtered for the men. They are treated to a sumptuous dish of pounded yam and soup prepared with the goat. After that they are entertained with “Ochichi” made up of kola nuts and smoked fish. This is followed up with gallons of fresh palm wine and other assorted kinds of drinks. Neighbors, mostly Umunna or Umudi, generally share in the party. One pictures the party as a gathering of men of diverse ages and propensities inter-mingling to form a galaxy of happy-looking fellows.
At harvest time, they are also engaged in the harvest, carrying and laying yams in stakes in the yam barn. This process constituted the marriage rite of “Inyo Ozi” in the olden days. No money was used at that time.
Ime Eku (Adoba Eju Mai) – Bride Price
“Ime Eku”, bride price, is also known as ‘Adoba Eju mmai”. In Afikpo, a girl or woman is said to be married only when the bride price has been paid for her. Once the bride price is paid on a girl, she becomes the bona-fide wife of the suitor, even if she is still in her parent’s home.
It is known that the system of buying and selling in the olden days was by barter, (that is exchange of goods with goods). One would ask: by which means was bride price paid in that circumstance? At that time, yam was revered as sacred commodity and was highly prized. Marriage, being a sacred institution was undertaken with something sacred. This explains why it was used for the payment of bride price on a girl. Parents then demanded yam for the bride price of their daughters. There was no stipulated number and standardized size of the yams to be used. Every parent demanded and got whatever he demanded. The disparity in the number and size of yams received by individual parents sparked off a controversy which erupted into serious disagreement and confrontation that almost tore Afikpo asunder. As reasoning gradually prevailed, it pushed Afikpo elders to meet and fix a uniform number and size of yams to be used for bride price in the whole of Afikpo. Bride price became uniform in Afikpo.
In the course to time, cowries (ikiri
OLD SYSTEM:
Under the old system, the stages are as follows:
- Ikpa Obubo
- Anam Abia
- Amari ulo
- Atogbo Nku
- Inyo ozi or Ahia ozi
- Ime Eku – (Adoba eju mai)
After determining that there is a bright future for their conjugal union, the suitor breaks the ice by proposing marriage to the girl, to which she gives her consent. She then tells the man to make his intentions known to her father. However, the girl’s father must have time to consider the proposal.
The suitor at this point discloses his plan to his parents who, in most cases, make enquiries about the character of the girl’s parents’ and their lineage. If the lineage is of good repute, they encourage the union and if otherwise, they will repudiate the idea. But this is rare. The consent of both parties accelerates the anxiety of the suitor and induces him to move to the first stage known as “Ikpa Obubo” – Conversation.
Amari Ulo
The story is told of a suitor who delegated representatives to take items of marriage (wine and fish) to the home of his late father-in-law’s brother (prospective in-law) at Ezi Agbo, Mgbom, Afikpo. The purpose of the visit was to make his intentions known to his prospective in-law. After some enquiries, the representatives found the house they were looking for and were received by the prospective in-law. Following the usual presentation and consumption of kola nut, the matter of marriage as is the custom in Afikpo, was introduced. Because of the abnormal approach to the issue, the prospective in-law was infuriated and, in a fit of anger, drove the suitor’s representatives out of his house. He was aggrieved by the fact that the suitor had not known his house previously before coming to perform marriage rites for his “‘daughter.” People, of course, agreed with him.
The suitor’s representatives went home and narrated their ordeal to him. After due consultation, the suitor and his representatives returned the prospective in-law’s home. They came with wine and a stick of dried fish and apologized. They told the man that they had come to know his house formally and officially. He should therefore accept them as the suitor of his “daughter.” With joy the man received them warmly. He gave consent to their request. This done, he gave them permission to carry on any other ceremonies in respect of the marriage without any hesitation. This act became a routine among men of his status. Later, it extended to daughters whose parents are alive and continued until it metamorphosed into a traditional marriage rite, baptized, “Amari Ulo” (knowing the house). So the use of fish or stock fish and wine became the basic process of “Amari Ulo” marriage ceremony.
Atogbo Nku (Dropping of Fire Wood)
After a man has “known the house” of his father-in-law, he steps into another stage known as “Atogbo Nku” which literally means dropping of fire wood. In the process, the man caries a big bundle of fire wood to his mother-in-law and drops it in front of her house. This is usually in the evening of either Orie or Nkwo market day. The following day, Afor or Eke market day, he also carries a big log of fire wood to the father-in-law and drops the wood in front of the man’s house.
The wood, in both cases, is placed at conspicuous places in order to attract the attention of passers-by who, upon seeing it, will undoubtedly know that a girl in that particular house is engaged to be married. Following this, the intimacy of the man with his fiancĂ© becomes so deep that the man can now pass nights in his girl’s house. “Dropping of fire wood” continued until the influence of western civilization reached Afikpo, following which, young men felt it was odd and demeaning for them to engage in such exercise.
In the course of time, the young men complained that it was degrading for them to carry firewood and logs of wood. They felt that such exercise was demeaning for men, although it suited the girls, naturally. The men implored parents of betrothed girls to find an alternative to Atogbo Nku. They were granted their request and were told to adopt the same process used in Amari Ulo by using smoked fish or stock fish and wine in lieu of fire wood. From then, the use of a stick of smoked fish or stock fish and palm wine became the vogue for Atogbo Nku.
In course of time other items like tobacco and potash, and in very recent times, cigarettes were added to the roster of permissible items for Atogbo Nku. Soon the use of the above items for Atogbo Nku was formalized and adopted as a customary marriage rite in the whole of Afikpo. It holds sway up to the present day.
Inyo Ozi or Ahia ozi (Undertaking of Labour or Work)
As a rule, suitors are responsible for the performance of some duties for their parents-in-law. They undertake jobs such as mending the leaking roofs of parents-in-laws’ houses. In the event of ill-health, the intending man is responsible for the payment of all hospital bills of the girl and her parents.
In the farming season, suitors are heavily involved in farm work for their parents-in-law. They clear bushes, make mounds for yams and cassava and even stake the yams at the appropriate time. Mound making for yams is the most essential duty of a suitor. He takes ten (10) or more men along with him to the father-in-law’s farm for mound making. This formal undertaking of farm work is usually a remarkable occasion. The father-in-law and the suitor are reciprocally involved. While the suitor and his men produce a very great piece of work in the farm, the father-in-law provides an elaborate entertainment for them at their return at home. Generally, a goat is slaughtered for the men. They are treated to a sumptuous dish of pounded yam and soup prepared with the goat. After that they are entertained with “Ochichi” made up of kola nuts and smoked fish. This is followed up with gallons of fresh palm wine and other assorted kinds of drinks. Neighbors, mostly Umunna or Umudi, generally share in the party. One pictures the party as a gathering of men of diverse ages and propensities inter-mingling to form a galaxy of happy-looking fellows.
At harvest time, they are also engaged in the harvest, carrying and laying yams in stakes in the yam barn. This process constituted the marriage rite of “Inyo Ozi” in the olden days. No money was used at that time.
Ime Eku (Adoba Eju Mai) – Bride Price
“Ime Eku”, bride price, is also known as ‘Adoba Eju mmai”. In Afikpo, a girl or woman is said to be married only when the bride price has been paid for her. Once the bride price is paid on a girl, she becomes the bona-fide wife of the suitor, even if she is still in her parent’s home.
It is known that the system of buying and selling in the olden days was by barter, (that is exchange of goods with goods). One would ask: by which means was bride price paid in that circumstance? At that time, yam was revered as sacred commodity and was highly prized. Marriage, being a sacred institution was undertaken with something sacred. This explains why it was used for the payment of bride price on a girl. Parents then demanded yam for the bride price of their daughters. There was no stipulated number and standardized size of the yams to be used. Every parent demanded and got whatever he demanded. The disparity in the number and size of yams received by individual parents sparked off a controversy which erupted into serious disagreement and confrontation that almost tore Afikpo asunder. As reasoning gradually prevailed, it pushed Afikpo elders to meet and fix a uniform number and size of yams to be used for bride price in the whole of Afikpo. Bride price became uniform in Afikpo.
In the course to time, cowries (ikiri
Marriage System in Afikpo (Ehugbo) By Gabriel Mbey
The
people of Afikpo (Ehugbo) have a unique system of marriage. This
article gives account of marriage rites as performed during the earlier
part of Afikpo history (the OLD SYSTEM) and marriage rites during the
later years (the NEW SYSTEM).
OLD SYSTEM:
Under the old system, the stages are as follows:
After determining that there is a bright future for their conjugal union, the suitor breaks the ice by proposing marriage to the girl, to which she gives her consent. She then tells the man to make his intentions known to her father. However, the girl’s father must have time to consider the proposal.
The suitor at this point discloses his plan to his parents who, in most cases, make enquiries about the character of the girl’s parents’ and their lineage. If the lineage is of good repute, they encourage the union and if otherwise, they will repudiate the idea. But this is rare. The consent of both parties accelerates the anxiety of the suitor and induces him to move to the first stage known as “Ikpa Obubo” – Conversation.
Amari Ulo
The story is told of a suitor who delegated representatives to take items of marriage (wine and fish) to the home of his late father-in-law’s brother (prospective in-law) at Ezi Agbo, Mgbom, Afikpo. The purpose of the visit was to make his intentions known to his prospective in-law. After some enquiries, the representatives found the house they were looking for and were received by the prospective in-law. Following the usual presentation and consumption of kola nut, the matter of marriage as is the custom in Afikpo, was introduced. Because of the abnormal approach to the issue, the prospective in-law was infuriated and, in a fit of anger, drove the suitor’s representatives out of his house. He was aggrieved by the fact that the suitor had not known his house previously before coming to perform marriage rites for his “‘daughter.” People, of course, agreed with him.
The suitor’s representatives went home and narrated their ordeal to him. After due consultation, the suitor and his representatives returned the prospective in-law’s home. They came with wine and a stick of dried fish and apologized. They told the man that they had come to know his house formally and officially. He should therefore accept them as the suitor of his “daughter.” With joy the man received them warmly. He gave consent to their request. This done, he gave them permission to carry on any other ceremonies in respect of the marriage without any hesitation. This act became a routine among men of his status. Later, it extended to daughters whose parents are alive and continued until it metamorphosed into a traditional marriage rite, baptized, “Amari Ulo” (knowing the house). So the use of fish or stock fish and wine became the basic process of “Amari Ulo” marriage ceremony.
Atogbo Nku (Dropping of Fire Wood)
After a man has “known the house” of his father-in-law, he steps into another stage known as “Atogbo Nku” which literally means dropping of fire wood. In the process, the man caries a big bundle of fire wood to his mother-in-law and drops it in front of her house. This is usually in the evening of either Orie or Nkwo market day. The following day, Afor or Eke market day, he also carries a big log of fire wood to the father-in-law and drops the wood in front of the man’s house.
The wood, in both cases, is placed at conspicuous places in order to attract the attention of passers-by who, upon seeing it, will undoubtedly know that a girl in that particular house is engaged to be married. Following this, the intimacy of the man with his fiancĂ© becomes so deep that the man can now pass nights in his girl’s house. “Dropping of fire wood” continued until the influence of western civilization reached Afikpo, following which, young men felt it was odd and demeaning for them to engage in such exercise.
In the course of time, the young men complained that it was degrading for them to carry firewood and logs of wood. They felt that such exercise was demeaning for men, although it suited the girls, naturally. The men implored parents of betrothed girls to find an alternative to Atogbo Nku. They were granted their request and were told to adopt the same process used in Amari Ulo by using smoked fish or stock fish and wine in lieu of fire wood. From then, the use of a stick of smoked fish or stock fish and palm wine became the vogue for Atogbo Nku.
In course of time other items like tobacco and potash, and in very recent times, cigarettes were added to the roster of permissible items for Atogbo Nku. Soon the use of the above items for Atogbo Nku was formalized and adopted as a customary marriage rite in the whole of Afikpo. It holds sway up to the present day.
Inyo Ozi or Ahia ozi (Undertaking of Labour or Work)
As a rule, suitors are responsible for the performance of some duties for their parents-in-law. They undertake jobs such as mending the leaking roofs of parents-in-laws’ houses. In the event of ill-health, the intending man is responsible for the payment of all hospital bills of the girl and her parents.
In the farming season, suitors are heavily involved in farm work for their parents-in-law. They clear bushes, make mounds for yams and cassava and even stake the yams at the appropriate time. Mound making for yams is the most essential duty of a suitor. He takes ten (10) or more men along with him to the father-in-law’s farm for mound making. This formal undertaking of farm work is usually a remarkable occasion. The father-in-law and the suitor are reciprocally involved. While the suitor and his men produce a very great piece of work in the farm, the father-in-law provides an elaborate entertainment for them at their return at home. Generally, a goat is slaughtered for the men. They are treated to a sumptuous dish of pounded yam and soup prepared with the goat. After that they are entertained with “Ochichi” made up of kola nuts and smoked fish. This is followed up with gallons of fresh palm wine and other assorted kinds of drinks. Neighbors, mostly Umunna or Umudi, generally share in the party. One pictures the party as a gathering of men of diverse ages and propensities inter-mingling to form a galaxy of happy-looking fellows.
At harvest time, they are also engaged in the harvest, carrying and laying yams in stakes in the yam barn. This process constituted the marriage rite of “Inyo Ozi” in the olden days. No money was used at that time.
Ime Eku (Adoba Eju Mai) – Bride Price
“Ime Eku”, bride price, is also known as ‘Adoba Eju mmai”. In Afikpo, a girl or woman is said to be married only when the bride price has been paid for her. Once the bride price is paid on a girl, she becomes the bona-fide wife of the suitor, even if she is still in her parent’s home.
It is known that the system of buying and selling in the olden days was by barter, (that is exchange of goods with goods). One would ask: by which means was bride price paid in that circumstance? At that time, yam was revered as sacred commodity and was highly prized. Marriage, being a sacred institution was undertaken with something sacred. This explains why it was used for the payment of bride price on a girl. Parents then demanded yam for the bride price of their daughters. There was no stipulated number and standardized size of the yams to be used. Every parent demanded and got whatever he demanded. The disparity in the number and size of yams received by individual parents sparked off a controversy which erupted into serious disagreement and confrontation that almost tore Afikpo asunder. As reasoning gradually prevailed, it pushed Afikpo elders to meet and fix a uniform number and size of yams to be used for bride price in the whole of Afikpo. Bride price became uniform in Afikpo.
In the course to time, cowries (ikiri
OLD SYSTEM:
Under the old system, the stages are as follows:
- Ikpa Obubo
- Anam Abia
- Amari ulo
- Atogbo Nku
- Inyo ozi or Ahia ozi
- Ime Eku – (Adoba eju mai)
After determining that there is a bright future for their conjugal union, the suitor breaks the ice by proposing marriage to the girl, to which she gives her consent. She then tells the man to make his intentions known to her father. However, the girl’s father must have time to consider the proposal.
The suitor at this point discloses his plan to his parents who, in most cases, make enquiries about the character of the girl’s parents’ and their lineage. If the lineage is of good repute, they encourage the union and if otherwise, they will repudiate the idea. But this is rare. The consent of both parties accelerates the anxiety of the suitor and induces him to move to the first stage known as “Ikpa Obubo” – Conversation.
Amari Ulo
The story is told of a suitor who delegated representatives to take items of marriage (wine and fish) to the home of his late father-in-law’s brother (prospective in-law) at Ezi Agbo, Mgbom, Afikpo. The purpose of the visit was to make his intentions known to his prospective in-law. After some enquiries, the representatives found the house they were looking for and were received by the prospective in-law. Following the usual presentation and consumption of kola nut, the matter of marriage as is the custom in Afikpo, was introduced. Because of the abnormal approach to the issue, the prospective in-law was infuriated and, in a fit of anger, drove the suitor’s representatives out of his house. He was aggrieved by the fact that the suitor had not known his house previously before coming to perform marriage rites for his “‘daughter.” People, of course, agreed with him.
The suitor’s representatives went home and narrated their ordeal to him. After due consultation, the suitor and his representatives returned the prospective in-law’s home. They came with wine and a stick of dried fish and apologized. They told the man that they had come to know his house formally and officially. He should therefore accept them as the suitor of his “daughter.” With joy the man received them warmly. He gave consent to their request. This done, he gave them permission to carry on any other ceremonies in respect of the marriage without any hesitation. This act became a routine among men of his status. Later, it extended to daughters whose parents are alive and continued until it metamorphosed into a traditional marriage rite, baptized, “Amari Ulo” (knowing the house). So the use of fish or stock fish and wine became the basic process of “Amari Ulo” marriage ceremony.
Atogbo Nku (Dropping of Fire Wood)
After a man has “known the house” of his father-in-law, he steps into another stage known as “Atogbo Nku” which literally means dropping of fire wood. In the process, the man caries a big bundle of fire wood to his mother-in-law and drops it in front of her house. This is usually in the evening of either Orie or Nkwo market day. The following day, Afor or Eke market day, he also carries a big log of fire wood to the father-in-law and drops the wood in front of the man’s house.
The wood, in both cases, is placed at conspicuous places in order to attract the attention of passers-by who, upon seeing it, will undoubtedly know that a girl in that particular house is engaged to be married. Following this, the intimacy of the man with his fiancĂ© becomes so deep that the man can now pass nights in his girl’s house. “Dropping of fire wood” continued until the influence of western civilization reached Afikpo, following which, young men felt it was odd and demeaning for them to engage in such exercise.
In the course of time, the young men complained that it was degrading for them to carry firewood and logs of wood. They felt that such exercise was demeaning for men, although it suited the girls, naturally. The men implored parents of betrothed girls to find an alternative to Atogbo Nku. They were granted their request and were told to adopt the same process used in Amari Ulo by using smoked fish or stock fish and wine in lieu of fire wood. From then, the use of a stick of smoked fish or stock fish and palm wine became the vogue for Atogbo Nku.
In course of time other items like tobacco and potash, and in very recent times, cigarettes were added to the roster of permissible items for Atogbo Nku. Soon the use of the above items for Atogbo Nku was formalized and adopted as a customary marriage rite in the whole of Afikpo. It holds sway up to the present day.
Inyo Ozi or Ahia ozi (Undertaking of Labour or Work)
As a rule, suitors are responsible for the performance of some duties for their parents-in-law. They undertake jobs such as mending the leaking roofs of parents-in-laws’ houses. In the event of ill-health, the intending man is responsible for the payment of all hospital bills of the girl and her parents.
In the farming season, suitors are heavily involved in farm work for their parents-in-law. They clear bushes, make mounds for yams and cassava and even stake the yams at the appropriate time. Mound making for yams is the most essential duty of a suitor. He takes ten (10) or more men along with him to the father-in-law’s farm for mound making. This formal undertaking of farm work is usually a remarkable occasion. The father-in-law and the suitor are reciprocally involved. While the suitor and his men produce a very great piece of work in the farm, the father-in-law provides an elaborate entertainment for them at their return at home. Generally, a goat is slaughtered for the men. They are treated to a sumptuous dish of pounded yam and soup prepared with the goat. After that they are entertained with “Ochichi” made up of kola nuts and smoked fish. This is followed up with gallons of fresh palm wine and other assorted kinds of drinks. Neighbors, mostly Umunna or Umudi, generally share in the party. One pictures the party as a gathering of men of diverse ages and propensities inter-mingling to form a galaxy of happy-looking fellows.
At harvest time, they are also engaged in the harvest, carrying and laying yams in stakes in the yam barn. This process constituted the marriage rite of “Inyo Ozi” in the olden days. No money was used at that time.
Ime Eku (Adoba Eju Mai) – Bride Price
“Ime Eku”, bride price, is also known as ‘Adoba Eju mmai”. In Afikpo, a girl or woman is said to be married only when the bride price has been paid for her. Once the bride price is paid on a girl, she becomes the bona-fide wife of the suitor, even if she is still in her parent’s home.
It is known that the system of buying and selling in the olden days was by barter, (that is exchange of goods with goods). One would ask: by which means was bride price paid in that circumstance? At that time, yam was revered as sacred commodity and was highly prized. Marriage, being a sacred institution was undertaken with something sacred. This explains why it was used for the payment of bride price on a girl. Parents then demanded yam for the bride price of their daughters. There was no stipulated number and standardized size of the yams to be used. Every parent demanded and got whatever he demanded. The disparity in the number and size of yams received by individual parents sparked off a controversy which erupted into serious disagreement and confrontation that almost tore Afikpo asunder. As reasoning gradually prevailed, it pushed Afikpo elders to meet and fix a uniform number and size of yams to be used for bride price in the whole of Afikpo. Bride price became uniform in Afikpo.
In the course to time, cowries (ikiri
Marriage System in Afikpo (Ehugbo) By Gabriel Mbey
The
people of Afikpo (Ehugbo) have a unique system of marriage. This
article gives account of marriage rites as performed during the earlier
part of Afikpo history (the OLD SYSTEM) and marriage rites during the
later years (the NEW SYSTEM).
OLD SYSTEM:
Under the old system, the stages are as follows:
After determining that there is a bright future for their conjugal union, the suitor breaks the ice by proposing marriage to the girl, to which she gives her consent. She then tells the man to make his intentions known to her father. However, the girl’s father must have time to consider the proposal.
The suitor at this point discloses his plan to his parents who, in most cases, make enquiries about the character of the girl’s parents’ and their lineage. If the lineage is of good repute, they encourage the union and if otherwise, they will repudiate the idea. But this is rare. The consent of both parties accelerates the anxiety of the suitor and induces him to move to the first stage known as “Ikpa Obubo” – Conversation.
Amari Ulo
The story is told of a suitor who delegated representatives to take items of marriage (wine and fish) to the home of his late father-in-law’s brother (prospective in-law) at Ezi Agbo, Mgbom, Afikpo. The purpose of the visit was to make his intentions known to his prospective in-law. After some enquiries, the representatives found the house they were looking for and were received by the prospective in-law. Following the usual presentation and consumption of kola nut, the matter of marriage as is the custom in Afikpo, was introduced. Because of the abnormal approach to the issue, the prospective in-law was infuriated and, in a fit of anger, drove the suitor’s representatives out of his house. He was aggrieved by the fact that the suitor had not known his house previously before coming to perform marriage rites for his “‘daughter.” People, of course, agreed with him.
The suitor’s representatives went home and narrated their ordeal to him. After due consultation, the suitor and his representatives returned the prospective in-law’s home. They came with wine and a stick of dried fish and apologized. They told the man that they had come to know his house formally and officially. He should therefore accept them as the suitor of his “daughter.” With joy the man received them warmly. He gave consent to their request. This done, he gave them permission to carry on any other ceremonies in respect of the marriage without any hesitation. This act became a routine among men of his status. Later, it extended to daughters whose parents are alive and continued until it metamorphosed into a traditional marriage rite, baptized, “Amari Ulo” (knowing the house). So the use of fish or stock fish and wine became the basic process of “Amari Ulo” marriage ceremony.
Atogbo Nku (Dropping of Fire Wood)
After a man has “known the house” of his father-in-law, he steps into another stage known as “Atogbo Nku” which literally means dropping of fire wood. In the process, the man caries a big bundle of fire wood to his mother-in-law and drops it in front of her house. This is usually in the evening of either Orie or Nkwo market day. The following day, Afor or Eke market day, he also carries a big log of fire wood to the father-in-law and drops the wood in front of the man’s house.
The wood, in both cases, is placed at conspicuous places in order to attract the attention of passers-by who, upon seeing it, will undoubtedly know that a girl in that particular house is engaged to be married. Following this, the intimacy of the man with his fiancĂ© becomes so deep that the man can now pass nights in his girl’s house. “Dropping of fire wood” continued until the influence of western civilization reached Afikpo, following which, young men felt it was odd and demeaning for them to engage in such exercise.
In the course of time, the young men complained that it was degrading for them to carry firewood and logs of wood. They felt that such exercise was demeaning for men, although it suited the girls, naturally. The men implored parents of betrothed girls to find an alternative to Atogbo Nku. They were granted their request and were told to adopt the same process used in Amari Ulo by using smoked fish or stock fish and wine in lieu of fire wood. From then, the use of a stick of smoked fish or stock fish and palm wine became the vogue for Atogbo Nku.
In course of time other items like tobacco and potash, and in very recent times, cigarettes were added to the roster of permissible items for Atogbo Nku. Soon the use of the above items for Atogbo Nku was formalized and adopted as a customary marriage rite in the whole of Afikpo. It holds sway up to the present day.
Inyo Ozi or Ahia ozi (Undertaking of Labour or Work)
As a rule, suitors are responsible for the performance of some duties for their parents-in-law. They undertake jobs such as mending the leaking roofs of parents-in-laws’ houses. In the event of ill-health, the intending man is responsible for the payment of all hospital bills of the girl and her parents.
In the farming season, suitors are heavily involved in farm work for their parents-in-law. They clear bushes, make mounds for yams and cassava and even stake the yams at the appropriate time. Mound making for yams is the most essential duty of a suitor. He takes ten (10) or more men along with him to the father-in-law’s farm for mound making. This formal undertaking of farm work is usually a remarkable occasion. The father-in-law and the suitor are reciprocally involved. While the suitor and his men produce a very great piece of work in the farm, the father-in-law provides an elaborate entertainment for them at their return at home. Generally, a goat is slaughtered for the men. They are treated to a sumptuous dish of pounded yam and soup prepared with the goat. After that they are entertained with “Ochichi” made up of kola nuts and smoked fish. This is followed up with gallons of fresh palm wine and other assorted kinds of drinks. Neighbors, mostly Umunna or Umudi, generally share in the party. One pictures the party as a gathering of men of diverse ages and propensities inter-mingling to form a galaxy of happy-looking fellows.
At harvest time, they are also engaged in the harvest, carrying and laying yams in stakes in the yam barn. This process constituted the marriage rite of “Inyo Ozi” in the olden days. No money was used at that time.
Ime Eku (Adoba Eju Mai) – Bride Price
“Ime Eku”, bride price, is also known as ‘Adoba Eju mmai”. In Afikpo, a girl or woman is said to be married only when the bride price has been paid for her. Once the bride price is paid on a girl, she becomes the bona-fide wife of the suitor, even if she is still in her parent’s home.
It is known that the system of buying and selling in the olden days was by barter, (that is exchange of goods with goods). One would ask: by which means was bride price paid in that circumstance? At that time, yam was revered as sacred commodity and was highly prized. Marriage, being a sacred institution was undertaken with something sacred. This explains why it was used for the payment of bride price on a girl. Parents then demanded yam for the bride price of their daughters. There was no stipulated number and standardized size of the yams to be used. Every parent demanded and got whatever he demanded. The disparity in the number and size of yams received by individual parents sparked off a controversy which erupted into serious disagreement and confrontation that almost tore Afikpo asunder. As reasoning gradually prevailed, it pushed Afikpo elders to meet and fix a uniform number and size of yams to be used for bride price in the whole of Afikpo. Bride price became uniform in Afikpo.
In the course to time, cowries (ikiri
OLD SYSTEM:
Under the old system, the stages are as follows:
- Ikpa Obubo
- Anam Abia
- Amari ulo
- Atogbo Nku
- Inyo ozi or Ahia ozi
- Ime Eku – (Adoba eju mai)
After determining that there is a bright future for their conjugal union, the suitor breaks the ice by proposing marriage to the girl, to which she gives her consent. She then tells the man to make his intentions known to her father. However, the girl’s father must have time to consider the proposal.
The suitor at this point discloses his plan to his parents who, in most cases, make enquiries about the character of the girl’s parents’ and their lineage. If the lineage is of good repute, they encourage the union and if otherwise, they will repudiate the idea. But this is rare. The consent of both parties accelerates the anxiety of the suitor and induces him to move to the first stage known as “Ikpa Obubo” – Conversation.
Amari Ulo
The story is told of a suitor who delegated representatives to take items of marriage (wine and fish) to the home of his late father-in-law’s brother (prospective in-law) at Ezi Agbo, Mgbom, Afikpo. The purpose of the visit was to make his intentions known to his prospective in-law. After some enquiries, the representatives found the house they were looking for and were received by the prospective in-law. Following the usual presentation and consumption of kola nut, the matter of marriage as is the custom in Afikpo, was introduced. Because of the abnormal approach to the issue, the prospective in-law was infuriated and, in a fit of anger, drove the suitor’s representatives out of his house. He was aggrieved by the fact that the suitor had not known his house previously before coming to perform marriage rites for his “‘daughter.” People, of course, agreed with him.
The suitor’s representatives went home and narrated their ordeal to him. After due consultation, the suitor and his representatives returned the prospective in-law’s home. They came with wine and a stick of dried fish and apologized. They told the man that they had come to know his house formally and officially. He should therefore accept them as the suitor of his “daughter.” With joy the man received them warmly. He gave consent to their request. This done, he gave them permission to carry on any other ceremonies in respect of the marriage without any hesitation. This act became a routine among men of his status. Later, it extended to daughters whose parents are alive and continued until it metamorphosed into a traditional marriage rite, baptized, “Amari Ulo” (knowing the house). So the use of fish or stock fish and wine became the basic process of “Amari Ulo” marriage ceremony.
Atogbo Nku (Dropping of Fire Wood)
After a man has “known the house” of his father-in-law, he steps into another stage known as “Atogbo Nku” which literally means dropping of fire wood. In the process, the man caries a big bundle of fire wood to his mother-in-law and drops it in front of her house. This is usually in the evening of either Orie or Nkwo market day. The following day, Afor or Eke market day, he also carries a big log of fire wood to the father-in-law and drops the wood in front of the man’s house.
The wood, in both cases, is placed at conspicuous places in order to attract the attention of passers-by who, upon seeing it, will undoubtedly know that a girl in that particular house is engaged to be married. Following this, the intimacy of the man with his fiancĂ© becomes so deep that the man can now pass nights in his girl’s house. “Dropping of fire wood” continued until the influence of western civilization reached Afikpo, following which, young men felt it was odd and demeaning for them to engage in such exercise.
In the course of time, the young men complained that it was degrading for them to carry firewood and logs of wood. They felt that such exercise was demeaning for men, although it suited the girls, naturally. The men implored parents of betrothed girls to find an alternative to Atogbo Nku. They were granted their request and were told to adopt the same process used in Amari Ulo by using smoked fish or stock fish and wine in lieu of fire wood. From then, the use of a stick of smoked fish or stock fish and palm wine became the vogue for Atogbo Nku.
In course of time other items like tobacco and potash, and in very recent times, cigarettes were added to the roster of permissible items for Atogbo Nku. Soon the use of the above items for Atogbo Nku was formalized and adopted as a customary marriage rite in the whole of Afikpo. It holds sway up to the present day.
Inyo Ozi or Ahia ozi (Undertaking of Labour or Work)
As a rule, suitors are responsible for the performance of some duties for their parents-in-law. They undertake jobs such as mending the leaking roofs of parents-in-laws’ houses. In the event of ill-health, the intending man is responsible for the payment of all hospital bills of the girl and her parents.
In the farming season, suitors are heavily involved in farm work for their parents-in-law. They clear bushes, make mounds for yams and cassava and even stake the yams at the appropriate time. Mound making for yams is the most essential duty of a suitor. He takes ten (10) or more men along with him to the father-in-law’s farm for mound making. This formal undertaking of farm work is usually a remarkable occasion. The father-in-law and the suitor are reciprocally involved. While the suitor and his men produce a very great piece of work in the farm, the father-in-law provides an elaborate entertainment for them at their return at home. Generally, a goat is slaughtered for the men. They are treated to a sumptuous dish of pounded yam and soup prepared with the goat. After that they are entertained with “Ochichi” made up of kola nuts and smoked fish. This is followed up with gallons of fresh palm wine and other assorted kinds of drinks. Neighbors, mostly Umunna or Umudi, generally share in the party. One pictures the party as a gathering of men of diverse ages and propensities inter-mingling to form a galaxy of happy-looking fellows.
At harvest time, they are also engaged in the harvest, carrying and laying yams in stakes in the yam barn. This process constituted the marriage rite of “Inyo Ozi” in the olden days. No money was used at that time.
Ime Eku (Adoba Eju Mai) – Bride Price
“Ime Eku”, bride price, is also known as ‘Adoba Eju mmai”. In Afikpo, a girl or woman is said to be married only when the bride price has been paid for her. Once the bride price is paid on a girl, she becomes the bona-fide wife of the suitor, even if she is still in her parent’s home.
It is known that the system of buying and selling in the olden days was by barter, (that is exchange of goods with goods). One would ask: by which means was bride price paid in that circumstance? At that time, yam was revered as sacred commodity and was highly prized. Marriage, being a sacred institution was undertaken with something sacred. This explains why it was used for the payment of bride price on a girl. Parents then demanded yam for the bride price of their daughters. There was no stipulated number and standardized size of the yams to be used. Every parent demanded and got whatever he demanded. The disparity in the number and size of yams received by individual parents sparked off a controversy which erupted into serious disagreement and confrontation that almost tore Afikpo asunder. As reasoning gradually prevailed, it pushed Afikpo elders to meet and fix a uniform number and size of yams to be used for bride price in the whole of Afikpo. Bride price became uniform in Afikpo.
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Months after Gov. Amechi released 75Million naira.. Ebonyi people in lagos ask for accountability
Gov. Martin Elechi of Ebonyi has approved the
immediate release of N75 million for the completion of some structures
at the Federal Polytechnic, Unwana Afikpo.
Elechi gave the approval in Abakaliki while receiving members of the governing council of the institution.
Elechi regretted the slow pace of the work
which contract was awarded in November 2012 and was expected to be
completed before the end of 2013.
“We will do everything possible to ensure the
completion of the project in the interest of the students and staff of
the institution,’’ he said.
Earlier, the Chairman of the council, Chief
Chimdi Ejiogu, thanked the governor for his contributions to the
development of the institution.
“This is the first governor since the
institution was inaugurated 30 years ago to contribute to its growth. We
therefore implore you to ensure the completion of the structure as its
presence has brought further developmental challenges to the
institution,” he said.
In his remarks, the Rector of the polytechnic,
Prof. Francis Otunta, attributed the delay in the completion of the
project to non-release of funds.
But months after fund release, the management of the polytechnic has not officially made a statement on the progress of work.
who do we ask? Lol
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